how to get a girl to go away?
There is this girl that has been annoying us from 3 years now. At first, she was nice and friendly. Then, she started to act like a baby towards us even when a huge crowd is involved. Also, she gets us in trouble for something we haven’t done that would get us even a warning (Ex. My friend writing a story that involves that girl in it then she wasn’t pleased so she told our strict vice principal). She uses us for our sympathy because she said that "her parents doesn’t care" (Lie: Her parents give her what she wants and she would cry if she doesn’t get it and she’s 14. Ex. sending the school VP an email that she wants to be in the same classes with my friends and not me.) She tells lies even about her parents going bankrupt and she lives in one of the richest towns in the state and says he can’t afford a folder (99 cents) but can afford a convention in Florida (0 and she didn’t save for it) . She manipulated one of my friends into being around with her.She threatens people, and she’s mean to everyone and uses (more like abuses) her freedom of speech to manipulate others into believing her into something she has caused. And she tries to get rid of me because she accused me of getting rid of her since I hung out with her ex-friends (and yes they like me!) And not to mention she backstabs people.
ps the annoying girl tells my friends everything even the "bankrupt"
oh yeah we tried saying "we’re done with you" and results came into a fight. also we tried showing her that she would leave us alone but she doesn’t get the message
does this show that she has some (trying to put this in a nice way) kind of problems like socio etc.?
sounds like this is a very troubled girl, her behaviour could be explained for many reasons, a lot of it attention seeking so i think the statement about her parents not caring is maybe the one true statement she has made, just because her parents buy her things and pay for everything she wants does not mean they show her that they care, it possible means that they do it to shut her up and keep her ‘happy’, when she actually needs their love and support.
it sounds like she doesn’t have a great deal of confidence in herself and probably doesn’t believe that she is capable of making friends the way normal people do, i would feel sorry for her, even though she is a pain in the ass and may cause you problems, she needs a good friend who will be trustworthy and will be able to tell her the way she behaves only pushes people away, but until she has this…if ever… then you may have to put up with her childish ways, any attempt to stop her or humiliate her will only end badly for you, as she will concentrate her efforts on destroying you and you have said that she is very manipulative, just take a step back, be nice to her and don’t get involved, she may be more trouble than it’s worth. she probably isolates you already because you get on well with people and she is either jealous or sees you as a threat.
September 6th, 2010 at 9:31 pmIf you tell a girl to fuk off, she will probably know what you’re talking about.
September 6th, 2010 at 9:31 pmtell her to leave u alone
September 6th, 2010 at 9:31 pmShe clearly is causing you a lot of stress. This girl obviously gets whatever she wants at home, and craves the same attention at school. What other way to say it… her parents haven’t brought her up well. You need to realize that this girl is not worth your time and stress. The next time she does something that makes you mad, tell her, "You need to stop treating me like this." or something along those lines. And it’s a good thing she emailed the vice principal saying that she wants to switch out of classes with you! You don’t have to see her face and hear her words! And who cares if she’s in classes with your friends? If her presence affects your friends enough to act mean toward you, you can comfront them about the problem. But otherwise, she seems harmless against you. If she really is the kind of person you’re describing, then your friends must not like her either. Therefore, won’t believe anything she says. Honestly, think about it. She’s going to end up being hurt in the end as a cause of her actions. Don’t worry about it. Focus on something else to get this off your mind. I know, she probably seems like a big deal now, but try to get it out of your system. Chances, are you won’t get her away. And if she starts saying something bratty or annoying to you, just ignore her and walk away. And about her complaining about the folder thing, don’t worry about it. Let her go without a folder and have a convention in Florida. That stuff really shouldn’t worry you, trust me, it isn’t worth it. And her parents? Don’t worry about that either. Just ignore her, or say, "Oh" if she brings up her parents. I wouldn’t advise your friends to do anything about her, just let them do what they want. Good Luck
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September 6th, 2010 at 9:31 pmI would say that this female is after attention by any means possible. The moment you react, even in a negative way means she gets the attention she is graving, So I think the only way to get her out of your hair is to totally ignore her, do not react, do not answer her, basically send her to Coventry. Once she realises that she will get no attention from you she will move on to another poor sap. She obviously needs some sort of counselling, but that’s not your job, just walk away.
September 6th, 2010 at 9:31 pm