I’m trying to get out of over grand of credit card debt. I was told by The Credit Exchange that debt settlement (with lawyers, when you put away a monthly fee into an account) is cheaper than consolidating/counseling. Which is safer? Did you have much luck with either? Any help would be appreciated!
My wife and I are planning on filing bankruptcy. I went back to school about 6 years ago, racked up a ton of debt, and then just before graduating, I got did something very stupid and ended up in a 1 year legal struggle, followed by 2 months in jail, and 3.5 years in counseling/treatment/restitution/fines/court costs etc. The question I have though is this: I had 2 credit cards that were above and beyond their limit, and I told them a while ago to get bent, that I was filing, that was about 12 months or so ago, (it has taken that long to get enough money to file) I also have a rash of medical bills and other assorted odds and ends. But the 2 credit card companies have not sent me a bill in all this time. I don’t know if they went ahead, called it a bad debt and said screw it or what. But those were the 2 largest bills I had, and without those I may be able to dig myself out of the hole I am in. Is there a way I can find out if these are still outstanding?
I have a relative ("Lou") who is in debt. Lou is in his early 30’s. The debt is more than K. Lou seems depressed, and I believe spends (restaurants, clothes, etc) as an escape from real life. In the past, the family has repaid Lou’s debt without conditions, but every time more debt appears later. This time, the family offered to refinance the debt only if Lou hews to a budget. Lou is resisting the budget since it imposes controls that any adult might resist. Plus, Lou is worried about his life being in too much flux and not being able to guarantee he can live within the budget. The only alternative is for Lou to default on his debt. We don’t really want that because of the long-term implications of bankruptcy. We also worry about pushing Lou "over the edge". There is no drinking or drug problem. There may be a gambling problem. What do we do? Lou refuses to go to counseling.
In the most tactful way. I am 21, My parents recently got divorced and my father was the one that filed. He cheated on my mom over the internet for 2 years prior and finally filed. All my life growing up he was condescending, insulting and patronizing to my mom. He also was unemployed and refused to get a job for almost 10 years, thus forcing us in to foreclosure and making my mom go bankrupt twice. I know he has mental health issues and my mom began to pity him so she stayed but i dont believe thats a good enough reason. Granted, he never layed a hand on any of us(i have younger brothers) but he used to scream, insult my my mom and when he was in a bad mood it would wreck havoc on the entire household.Even neighbors and friends of ours from CHURCH were suggesting and offering to help my mom finacially get a divorce. To me that speaks volumes if christians whom are taught not to divorce are even suggesting. He now has a new gf that he is verbally abusive too imo and i also think he cheats on. I dont want to hurt my mom but i cant help how i feel. Please give me suggestions this is taking so much out of me I cannot concentrate on my studies.
ill add there was a summer about 8or 9 years ago she did really attempt to leave with the assistance of a friend/ neighbor, but my dad said he wanted to go to counseling instead
wow very good insightful answers
i feel guilty for my choice of words, i dont resent as many of you said she tryed to keep her marriage vows and what was best for us kids
I am a business owner and I am having an issue with getting paid for my services that have been completed. My husband was a business owner (both of us in construction) and recently had to shut his company down to to an issue with the IRS. I have done work for one of the same companies that he has in the past. His company was issued a levy and the levy was also send to the General Contractor that I am doing the work for. The General Contractor is now holding my funds and refusing to pay until they hear from the IRS. Meanwhile there is no paperwork filed against my company for a lien or a levy by the IRS. This GC is just not paying me. I have hired a CPA to help us and he flat out told us that what this General Contractor is doing to us is ILLEGAL!! Because of this we have gone bankrupt. We are losing our house, our cars and have had to seek counseling becuse of the amount of stress that this is putting on our family. We do have a 20month old daughter and in less than a month we will have no place to live, no vechicles and be completely broke. I am in a situation where the only thing I can do is hire legal counsil to get our money. We are owed over 0,000 and we don’t think we will see a dime unless we get legal counsil. Can I sue them for withholding funds? Can I sue them for emotion distress? How much can I sue them for? I need some advice!! Please help me!!!
I have a relative ("Lou") who is in debt. Lou is in his early 30’s. The debt is more than K. Lou seems depressed, and I believe spends (restaurants, clothes, etc) as an escape from real life. In the past, the family has repaid Lou’s debt without conditions, but every time more debt appears later. This time, the family offered to refinance the debt only if Lou hews to a budget. Lou is resisting the budget since it imposes controls that any adult might resist. Plus, Lou is worried about his life being in too much flux and not being able to guarantee he can live within the budget. The only alternative is for Lou to default on his debt. We don’t really want that because of the long-term implications of bankruptcy. We also worry about pushing Lou "over the edge". There is no drinking or drug problem. There may be a gambling problem. What do we do? Lou refuses to go to counseling.
I am currently living out of the country to help my in-laws while they are experiencing some medical problems. I want to know if my parents can file bankruptcy for me if they have power of attorney (in the state of GA)? I know I would have to go back for the meeting with the trustee and the counseling, but if they could file for me, that would really help in our situation. Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance!