OK firstly, if you’re coming on here to give me advice and help: thank you. If you’re someone who is coming on here to stand in judgement, and tell me what horrible people me and my husband are for ‘racking up debt’ and then going bankrupt, then don’t bother wasting your time, because I will just report your post and ignore it anyway. Not being funny, but all I have got during the three times I have posted this today is nasty comments from a few people who have no idea of the circumstances that led up to the bankruptcy, and spam from people advertising loans! So if someone could give me some helpful advice, I would appreciate it. I havent posted it for several hours, so hopefully there’s some different people on here now.

So here is my dilemma:

We went bankrupt in November 2010, moved out of our mortgaged home, and moved into rented accommodation.. We owned a property (mortgaged) which had a 75K mortgage and also we had a 30K secured loan and £50K UNsecured debt. Just recently, one house near our old house, went for £105K, so the most it will get (at auction probably) is about £90K.

So we went bankrupt and the receivers contacted us to see what assets we have – we have none, except for the house. We haven’t been back to the house since, and didn’t have our mail redirected as we have informed anyone of any importance about our new address.

Well, I phoned the receivers today to ask if they have let the creditors know yet, (because at 12 Jan 2011 they hadn’t..) and they said yes they informed them and sent a report of our debts and other creditors on 18 Jan. Then this girl said, ‘your unsecured debtors (we had £50K unsecured debt) will know there’s little point in trying to you, but the mortgage company will need to contact you and know your ‘current’ address, because they will need to issue a repossession order,,,’

I am utterly baffled, as when we spoke to the receivers in November, (AND the court too,) they both informed us that the receivers would deal with everything, and that the creditors will need to go to the receivers for any assets we have. This is how bankruptcy works surely.???? And now this girl tell us that we should have contacted the mortgage company voluntarily, because the creditors ‘only let the creditors know the person is bankrupt,’ and because there is little equity, they don’t take the house themselves, they just leave it up to the mortgage company to reposses it at their leisure. So apparently, we are supposed to work with the mortgage company through the repossession. !!!

But why on earth should *we* have to let them know our new address so they can badger us here, ?? Surely they can repossess it without us. I was under the distinct impression from the court and from the receivers (at the start) that once we go bankrupt, it’s out of our hands. and now 3 months on, one girl at the receivers office is saying that we should have contacted the mortgage company so we can help in the repossession process!

Well excuse me, but we did pay the receivers £900 (£450 each) to do this job for us, and what would happen if we had buggared off and just abandoned the house like a lot of people do? Surely the repossession can go ahead without us?

Can anyone advise? I am super reluctant to contact the mortgage company and see no reason why they can’t simply repossess without us. And I am particularly pissed off that the receivers AND the court said it’s out of our hands and we need to do NOTHING, as declaring ourselves bankrupt freed us of the debt (and the assets of course..) and now this girl today has said we should inform the mortgage company of our new address, or the repossession order will take many months, as they ‘need our signatures…’ for the repossession order to go through swiftly.

For one, why only say this now? And what happens if someone abandons a property? Should we just leave it and wait for them to repossess without us?

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"Jeff", 21, is a full time college student and can no longer work because he doesn’t have the time. His dad lost his car for driving without any credentials, so Jeff now drives him to and from his low paying, thoughtless job every day. He drives him anywhere he needs to go – bank, store, church. It’s been going on several weeks, and the father has said nothing about getting a new car since he can’t afford the 00 ticket. The father spends most of his time partaking in church and football watching on tv. He has no aspiration to get a second job, because as long as he has his routine church, football, and weekly steak, he is happy. Honestly, he isn’t very bright, for he can’t even understand basic things that Jeff or I talk about – he isn’t bright at all. It seems hopeless.

The father has lied to the mother, who cares but is going bankrupt anyway, so it’s not like she can financially cover her son, Jeff. The father even lies that he is paying Jeff’s car insurance, when really he isn’t paying for his or his son’s.

The father does give weekly twenties to Jeff for gas, in addition to cash for any of his car repairs. It’s not enough though, so I give money to Jeff as well. Ever since the father’s dilemma occurred, Jeff has been far more anxious and tired than normal. He is so busy, he has little time to consider a plan. He also doesn’t have much time to complete the startup process of his online business. He is driving illegally (no insurance), so this must be corrected. What can he do, and does it benefit that I inform the mother of the truth?

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I am beginning to regret going to college, it seems the only thing I have attained from it, is debt. When I went to school I was allured to the dream of being an airline pilot. I finally got my pilot’s license, but it got to expensive, so I switched to Aviation Management. I am so depressed and mad at myself for letting this happen, and it seems like there is no way out. A few times I forgot to fill out the FAFSA so I had to take out loans to cover the expenses, or I was late getting it in and got no money.

Here’s where I am at:
1 Loan for ,000 (Monthly Payments of 476/mo); 1 Loan for 620 (Monthly Payments of 128); 1 Loan for 00 (Monthly Payments of 50), and Credit Card Debt of about 00. So I have loans totaling 420.

I also have a car payment, cell phone, however I pay no rent, but my grandparents will soon be asking for that.

I just got a new job that pays me 000 per year. So if I don’t put anything into savings I can pay off my loans in about 4 years, however when you begin to figure in my other expenses it’s more like 7 years.

Consolidation is not really an option, because the 000 is an “Education Alternative Loan”, it’s not a federal loan. The 00 loan is a no interest loan. And the 620 is a direct federal loan.

-My dilemma is that, I have a girlfriend that I want to begin a life with. I wish to get an apartment with her maybe in the next year or so. And I want to marry her.

Situation 1- Do I put no money into savings and just tackle the loans head on? I will have no money for retirement or a down payment on a house.

Situation 2- I put some money aside into savings, and it will take longer to pay off?

Situation 3- Declare bankruptcy if I can?

I apologize for this taking so long, but I don’t know what to do. Thank you for your help.

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