I want adivorce after 30 years of marriage. HE is trying to use a do it yourself with a paralegal.?
We have 3 children, ( 2 minor, 11 and 17), our home is our biggest asset. We have a lot of debt with judgments against us. He has hidden other property and other assets, ( motorcycles, vehicles), and other items of value by them getting them out of his name so I and the courts can t touch them. I must seek legal aid from our local county, as I have no money to defend myself. My husband is trying to make sure I get nothing, when I am the one initiating the divorce, because of his excessive alcoholism, physical and verbal abuse towards the children and me. There is a documented case with DCF against him, for abuse and drug use that my son’s school reported . The case was closed with no further action. We need to file for bankruptcy and I desperately need guidance in the right direction awaiting legal aid to assist me. Someone please show me the light…
He seems anxious to get me to sign his do it yourself divorce, yet he refuses to leave the house, and wants to stay while all this escalates.