Beside the fact of me being told I have 3 days before I’m being kicked out the house, the b1tch that’s kicking me out is forcing me down the military route, my original plans were going to Bethune but I literally have the most uncooperative parents ever,the tuition is high, and that’s school is VERY family oriented.my parents would rather smoke w33d or watch "All My Children" before it gets canceled and judge me like I was the reason they are miserable.Brief financial and current situation. . . Father is ex military,literally f***ing psychotic(surprised one of us aren’t dead in all honestly) does get a retirement check but most of that is garnished from child support (bastard child). Hasn’t had a job in 2 years and they year before that he literally had 4 different jobs(quit them) and the job he has now is a entry level job scanning papers into Xerox machine part time (really hard huh?) and wait this is the best part . . . my mom helped him get that job . . . working in the same building. My mom’s job is fairly decent, credentialing specialist, nothing close to where she should be getting for her degree, but that’s another discussion.. They have been in Bankruptcy twice and have been kicked out-TWICE!!! (and they still have the nerve to criticize me on my trivial choices)Meanwhile I scored a 74 on my asvab (i know its average) and I been going back and forth to the recruiters office discussing certain things about the Navy and what they can do for ME. They can’t offer much but I’m very limited on choice so the Navy is where I’m stuck on going. The big discussion that me and the recruiter(s) have is ultimately is that , is this my choice on going or not.I truly don’t want to go to the military,I’ve been told I have a good foundation for it but I shouldn’t go because I just don’t want to go and I have no drive whatsoever to go in enlisted. They tell me I will be miserable. I’m going to be kicked out and soon anyways but whats the point of going into the military if i would probably get an ELS (if you don’t know what that is, you shouldn’t even think of giving me an answer anyways) But if I don’t go, I’m going to be homeless soon (that’s is happening regardless)

So I need alternative options (no snarky or just plain irrelevant remarks please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
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I just joined the ANG and I’m prior service the process went so fast the recruiter never asked me about my credit. Now it has come up about me needing a Secret Clearance but I’m worried about credit. Should i try to settle some of the debts before I do my clearance application? I know to be honest I have no intention to lie about it I just want to know what options I have so I won’t be rejected.

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We spoke briefly to a recruiter and he said that yes my husband can still enlist but it will affect his security clearance. We couldnt inquire more because he rushed us off the phone. My question is wouldnt bad credit still affect his ability to get a security clearance. as well?

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I have an active chapter 13 bankruptcy case which is in good standing, and I am considering joining the naval reserves. I talked and made an appointment with a recruiter today but the bankruptcy issue never came up. Will this prevent me from serving in the reserves?

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After talking to an AF recruiter, they stated that I had to be paid up or on a payment plan with creditors to join. If the debt is mortgage charge offs, if I file chapter 13 bankruptcy and a payment plan is worked out with the creditors, will I be able to join? I ask this because after searching, some state that if you file bankruptcy, it has to be discharged before joining. What is the truth?

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